How counseled the rivalry of extramarital affair.
One
of my special clients contacted me. She told that her happiness was totally
lost and life was exhausted. She was found self-irritated and very angry.
Every human is different, so no any theory
would be worked in same pattern. When I talked to the client, I was
decided to recognize the pattern of the client and the peoples connected with
her first. Then good rapport building was next step, so that she can share
everything clearly.
1st
Session.
After
rapport building, Case history taking and recording in laptop or notebook is
the first step of counselling. In first Session, I took case history. During
taking case history tried to reach the actual problem of client. But that was
only on her point of view. I was filtered the data as per my requirements.
Dogged more and more through open ended questions and closed ended
questions.
Findings
of the First Session: Client's husband has extramarital affairs with her
friend. It was confirmed.
2nd
Session.
During
second session I tried to examine the mental status of the client. I had found
her mood swing and high emotion of anger. For the good rapport she told me
almost everything.
Findings
of the Second Session: Client's has hypothyroidism, which leads the mood swing.
She is already under medication and I advised to consult with physician for
dose adjustment of medicine.
3rd
Session
In
third session we set the goal to uncovering the unconsciousness, finding
meaning in life, Curing an Emotional Disturbance, Examining old decision
and making new ones, Developing trust in oneself, and Reducing
maladaptive behaviour and learning adaptive pattern.
4th
Session
Fourth session’s Objectives includes the work to achieve the set goals. We decided the objectives one by one and determined the required time to complete the objectives.
5th
Session
In
fifth session rectified the procedure towards the objective, which was followed
by the client. Counsellor not gives any advice, but kust guide and helps by
certain psychological procedure to achieve the goal through objectives and the psychological procedure.
6
the Session
During
sixth session tested the improvements of husband wife’s relations and about the
extramarital affair of client’s husband. Shifted her main focus to her life and
happiness from the affair. Her cognition and beliefs has been changed.
7th
Session
In
7th session given some assignments to read some books and exercise.
She confirms her feeling better and her happiness attracted her husband again.
If you are not happy you could not make anybody happy.
8th
Session
In
8th session guided the client towards more improvement in her
behaviour and emotions. Found error in her emotions. As a lady client correction
of emotion was not so easy. But anyhow
she managed it.
9th
Session
During
9th session she informed the good news gifting a car to her by
husband. We were discussed about what
she learnt from the sessions and what to be continue life-long. She promised
to follow every steps learned in counselling
10th
Session
In
10th session we discussed about my transference and her counter transference.
Now it is time to detachment of counsellor and client. So that client can live
independently.
Thus,
my counselling session was ended. I had used feminist approach and CBT approach to help the client.
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